Here’s an option for making Christmas a bit greener: Give people things they can use. Give them food and drink, clothes, toiletries and useful or essential things that they are missing. Make sure these are things that keep well, and they will be used and none of them will be abandoned to landfill.
We are subjected to a lot of messages that useful things – such as socks – are terrible presents. A proper, glamorous present costs a lot more and has less utility. Children don’t want warm clothes, they want a plastic toy based on a TV program. Allegedly.
This is a great time to provide people with nice things they wouldn’t necessarily be able to fund for themselves. Think carefully about what the person you are buying for might need – so many people are living in poverty at the moment; small useful gifts are much more valuable than things of no utility in this context.
Also think about how to tackle the issue of gifts with any friends or family members who might struggle to afford it. Offering not to do Christmas can really take the pressure off. The gift of not driving someone else into debt is a huge one, and well worth considering.
Poverty tends to cause feelings of shame and inadequacy, so it can make it very hard to say ‘I can’t afford to buy you a present’. If you are in a better position, take the initiative here. Start those awkward conversations. Give the gift of caring about other people’s situations.
December 21st, 2018 at 3:39 pm
I 100% agree with this! My husband and I are really shifting how we view the holiday traditions that we were brought up on. Everything is tight this time of year and we just want to make it about spending time together, baking a treat with the kids and eating a warm meal. Thanks for this post!
December 21st, 2018 at 4:22 pm
Yes, it’s very hard for people to admit they can’t afford to buy presents. That’s an excellent point.
December 21st, 2018 at 4:22 pm
Socks are awesome- you can never have enough socks.
If you want to be lavish about it get pure wool or merino
December 23rd, 2018 at 2:02 pm
I hear good things about bamboo socks, too.
December 23rd, 2018 at 5:50 pm
Ooh yes, they’re lovely too