I first became aware of Taoism in late childhood, via The Tao of Pooh, which I read, loved and no doubt mostly didn’t understand at all. But it spoke to me nonetheless and when opportunities have come up to explore further, I’ve taken them. I own several interpretations of the Tao Te Ching. My Druidry has always been coloured somewhat by the things I’ve learned from Taoism.
One of the Taoist ideas I find especially appealing to explore is the role of personal authenticity. Religions that are about transcending this world tend to encourage practitioners to put aside the self, the ego, the illusion in order move on up into the realm of spirit. I’m a spiritual materialist, my feet are on the earth and my sense of the sacred is earthly. I’ve no desire to transcend.
Taoism says be yourself, but see yourself as part of something far bigger and longer lasting than you. It teaches that human nature is naturally in tune with the Tao, if we let it flow, and that human artifice is the thing that keeps as away from being part of the flow of the universe. To live well and live simply is the goal, to be quietly part of the world and acting from our true nature so as to be aligned with the Tao. I’ve been in too many contexts that wanted me to hack bits off myself. The affirmation that my most authentic self is a good thing is something I find helpful, and healing.
It’s a line of thought that brings me back to Mary Oliver’s ‘You do not have to be good, you only have to left the soft animal of your body love what it loves.’ For me this has been the basis of stripping away artifice and finding my authentic self. Whatever that is. I’m still looking, still finding things that aren’t me but have been squashed onto my surfaces. Still hunting out bits that have been hacked off in the past.
There’s a ‘good enough’ notion at the core of this. A human is fundamentally good enough. What we do to ourselves and each other can take us away from that, when we deform who we are to try and become what we think we should be… But in essence we are all good enough, we just need to settling into that, be with it, make room for it. Cruelty is not natural, nor is taking far, far more than we need in order the waste the vast majority of it. Our animal selves are likely much better than the weird socially constructed humans we’ve been cobbling together for thousands of years.
I do not have to overcome my ego. I do not have to deliberately crush any part of me that feels good about things. I do not have to punish my body to be spiritual. I do not have to deny my earthly being and my earth-based life to be spiritual. I just need to settle down in this soft animal body I have, and love the warmth of sunlight on my skin, and love the tactile surfaces and the warmth of other soft animal bodies, the hills beneath my feet, the shade of trees, the sunset… Rather than the spiritual path seeming like some vast and daunting effort, it seems gentle, easy even.
March 22nd, 2017 at 1:51 pm
Amazing. Perfect Timing.
March 22nd, 2017 at 5:38 pm
The last paragraph sums up exactly how I feel too!
March 22nd, 2017 at 6:40 pm
That sounds like my sort of thing! Can you recommend a book please?
March 22nd, 2017 at 6:53 pm
Anything by Solala Towler.
March 22nd, 2017 at 8:36 pm
Absolutely. Great post
March 22nd, 2017 at 9:38 pm
Gee, how radical, enjoy being the imperfect human animal that one is without apologizing for it. Just be. [Grin]
March 23rd, 2017 at 7:48 am
There’s something to aspire to 🙂
March 26th, 2017 at 7:17 am
I love this. Thank you.
April 11th, 2017 at 1:02 am
Dear Nimue:
As much as I love your writing, and exploring new concepts on the path of Celtic faith and druidry, I find that I simply cannot handle the volume of messages in my inbox any longer. Even weekly emails from my favorite writers and bloggers sometimes are deleted unread, and I dislike showing that kind of disrespect to your intellectual and spiritual work. I wonder if I might just be able to follow you on Facebook, or visit your blog from time to time to read your ideas instead, or if you have a monthly newsletter option to which I could be subscribed.
Thank you for your thoughts and perspectives, and the calm generosity with which you share them!
Judy Alkema
Graphictional Design http://www.graphictional.weebly.com
Sent: Wednesday, March 22, 2017 at 8:31 PM
April 11th, 2017 at 6:58 am
Absolutely. It’s important not to be overwhelmed and the odds are there will always be posts that have little or no relevance to any given reader. I’m on facebook – https://www.facebook.com/nimue.brown Also, if you poke around in the reader options for wordpress, you can be sent a weekly digest one email, all the posts so you can just skim through and pick up the topics that suit you.